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If you are a teenager and thinking about parenthood, think again. I am a 16 year old teenager who had a baby at 15. The birth of the baby was complicated, along with the pregnancy.
 
If I could do it over I would have listened to my parents. I really thought my baby’s father loved me until I told him I was pregnant. The first thing he said to me was, "It’s not mine." He then left me.
 
I went through the pregnancy by myself, the birth of my child alone. I am also raising my daughter by myself.
 
My life has changed a lot. There is no more partying or hanging out with your friends. Put it like this: even though I am 16, I don’t feel like a teenager anymore.
 
If there wasn’t public assistance I think I wouldn’t be able to give my child the material things she needs, or the food she needs.
 
I sometimes wish I never had a child. When she cries and there is no way to stop her from crying no matter how hard I try, I get real frustrated. I have help from my Mom, but she is not always going to be there for me because this is my responsibility.
 
If I could change things, I would not have a baby right now. I love my daughter, but feel now isn’t a good time for me to have a child. But it is too late now.
 
She is here, and I am a mother.
 
My advice for you is to please think it over again. Think about the consequences of having sex and having a baby. If this doesn’t help and you decide to have a baby, it is not going to be fun.
 
If it doesn’t turn out the way you expected, don’t take it out on the child. It is not the child’s fault.
 
It is yours for deciding to have a baby so young. Always remember this is another life to think about. Every little thing you do, you teach your child.
 
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